Dating Tips for Clueless Men
Being mysterious and being creative are two of the best dating tips for men I can give you right off the bat. Taking a woman out to dinner and maybe a movie is the first idea men have to take a woman out on a date.
This is nice but boring, unimaginable and very predictable. Women like a mysterious men that makes their lives interesting and fun.
The ironic thing about dating tips is that the simplest social activities usually make the best dates.
Remember that women want to get to know you for who you really are and if you’re comfortable and having fun, you’re real personalities tends to come out.
You act yourself instead of trying to create some fabrication of who you are. So let’s look at the movie and a diner date theme.
The reason why this route tends to do more damage than good is that most people are completely out their element.
You are eating dinner with someone you don’t really know, trying to have a relevant conversation without any outside aids to help you.
You probably are a little nervous and she is uncomfortable because you’re uncomfortable.
Yes, you can become skilled at creating B.S. conversation and get away with it, but why would you do that when you have other alternatives.
First, before you start trying to figure out what else you can do besides going out to dinner, ask yourself what do she want to get out of the date and what do you need to get out the date.
She wants to see what you are all about.
She wants to know if:
- You’re fun
- Comfortable with women
- Boring
- Imaginative
- Predictable
- A gentleman or a hard-ass
- A pushover
- A true alpha man
- A liar or cheat
- You have a good social life
- If you’re good in bed.
She wants to know if you are clueless with women or do you have good understanding about what women want and need.
One particular question she ants to know is if you’re a good kisser.
Women love intimacy and a man that’s knows how to kiss a woman the right way probably knows how to be intimate.
So if she wants to find out these thing out about you on the date, then what you need to happen on the date is to take her to an environment where you both can learn about each other in a natural and comfortable way.
Now, maybe some people spend all their time I bars and restaurants and they feel comfortable taking women out to eat but still this is so predictable and a turn off to women.
Dinner should be your back up plan but try to be different from all the other guys.
Think about things and places that you do and go to. If you’re a golfer, why not take your date golfing or put put golf.
Why not get her and her friends together and take them out to a field and show them how to swing a club.
Watching yourself and your friend’s look stupid doing something new is fun and cheap.
If you like cars take her to a car show and share your love with her. If you like video games why not take her to the arcade in the mall and have a day of fun playing games.
The older she is the better!
If you don’t think you have any particular talents or interest then one other thing you should try is to flatter her by taking her into her element, such as the mall.
She will be more comfortable if she is familiar with the setting of the date.
The idea is to take her to a place she likes to go and change her viewpoint of that place.
Make her view her favorite past time in a new light and make it fun.
An example, life is hard and complicated, but it is also silly, funny and predictable.
Take her to the mall and the object of the date is to find an outfit that makes your date look the funniest and get a random person to judge the final product.
You can go into any clothing store and have this competition.
This is just an example but you get the point, think of fun and unpredictable things to do and she will be more comfortable with you.
Your conversation will be natural and you will score a lot of points with her for making her life fun.
Afterward take her somewhere where you can have some quiet conversation and intimate time together like a Starbucks or bookstore.
For most of us, our child hood was the best time of our lives. How many of us said we wished we were back in school, when we didn’t have any bills or real worries.
All we cared about was having fun with our friends. Well what better date than taking them to places where you love to be and have tons of stuff to talk about.
Taking them to the places you love to be solves most of the problems with dates.
It is fun and you’re in your element, so you’re comfortable.
You know people that enjoy these things as much as you do, so therefore you know the people to introduce her to.
This is a crucial social factor to women.
They want to know who you know and how much social value you have.
If nothing else taking on this kind of date will separate you from all the other lame experiences she has had with all those predictable guys.
